Blog Poll: Spying on a Cheating Spouse
Do you suspect your spouse of cheating? Are you thinking about spying on your spouse to try to confirm your suspisions? There are things you should take into consideration before you begin your quest to find out if your spouse is cheating. First, are you ready for the conflict that will occur when your spouse finds out you have been spying on him/her? You should expect your spouse to be upset, to accuse you of not trusting them and to deny their own actions in favor of trying to make you feel guilty for spying.
Secondly, certain forms of “spying” are illegal. There are state and federal laws that regulate the use of surveillance equipment, recording devices and Internet software. You should become familiar with your state’s laws before you go full steam ahead with any sort of covert spying behavior.


When i accidentally get an e-mail sent to me that the other guy intended for my wife, I confront her and she sets up a secret e-mail account on my home network Server, which I own, when there are three other PC’s in the finsihed area of the house and she is using the file server, that was not right. Then when she began to treta me with contempt after returning from a 2 month assignment and will not let me touch her I got worried. She kept walking to a remote area of the basement and I think she wanted to be caught. She ran down there one morning before her an my son went to see her sister for the weekend and I clikced on Hotmail’s save e-mail address and password botton the night before. I opened her e-mail account and it was used for a single purpose. She could have at a minimum an online affair with her married male coworker. When I read how she was planning to divorce me, lied and slandered me and was trying to manipulate that other guy to leave his wife i let it go, but i warned him I knew. For the next 5 nights she went downstairs to check her e-mail and since he stopped writing would emerge from the back room shortly thereafter. Then she asked me to take our son to the store and she never does this. I setup a keylogger and that last e-mail was an ultimatum to him that their friendship was over, but she also desired a closer relationship with him. I also got the keystrokes and the deleted words and that was the ugly one. I confronted her the next day and she filed for divorce two days later.
I found out when my husband walked out on his family after 25 years of marriage that he had been cheating almost the entire time. Had I known beforehand, I would have never continued in the marriage. It was not a one time thing but several trysts and long term committments especially to one woman who was also married with 2 children. After he left, he continued to email them during the time he came over to the house to visit our children. When I checked the emails (the kids told me he was always on the computer), I found out all about everything. He had also downloaded some nasty, nasty pornographic material that popped up when my youngest was on line. While I realize there are some things that we all keep private, when it ruins a long term marriage and ultimatley ends up hurting the kids, I think it is well justified to find out, via spying. Since my spouse found out I knew, he has tried all sorts of ways to get back at me. Why you ask? That’s the million dollar question. I truly believe he is so upset that I found out his game, he need to get back at me in some way as I’m sure he blames me for his infidelity. Thanks for letting me voice my opinion.
Ed, thanks for the comment. It sounds as if your wife was in panic mode over her relationship with this other man. Someone in her frame of mind can cause a lot of pain for all involved. Her ultimatum to him says she wanted what she wanted no matter who got harmed.
I’m wondering how it all ended for her. Did she get the relationship she wanted with the other man? Will she ever stop to think about the harm she did to his family and her own?
“I truly believe he is so upset that I found out his game, he need to get back at me in some way as I’m sure he blames me for his infidelity.”
This seems to be a common response Lorrie. No one knows why he feels the need to be angry at you over something he did. There could be a dozen reasons. I guess it is just esier for some to shift the blame than to take responsibility.
I’m sorry your marriage ended and for the pain your husband’s infidelities caused you and your children. Maybe that is why he is so angry. Deep inside he knows he hurt people who didn’t deserve it.
I bought my tracking gps at http://www.gpsspousetracking.com
Theirs didn’t have any monthly fees and it just plugs into my usb port to retrieve information on where the vehicle traveled, stopped, for how long. etc.
Best regards and good luck,
jay
Great articles on how to catch a cheater:
http://www.hackyourlove.com
One way to determine if your lover is cheating on you is if the internet browser history is always cleared. that’s just as bad as flicking the monitor off when the other party walks in the room:
I have done many searches for wives cheating on husbands, but I haven’t realy found any. This seams to be the only site to listen.The first thing I have to say is 95% of affairs each person knows the others involvement with others. My wife had an affair for 7 months whjch I thought was because of me. then i found out she cheated on him also.Well about 2 years have passed and I think it’s happening again. Should i leave this time?
My girlfriend tried this out and it works..
http://www.cheatin-spouses.com
It is true that you must be ready and emotionally sound enough when and if you to catch a cheating spouse when using a spy technique. Also, check out your local laws regarding the use of surveillance equipment or hidden cameras for a “caught in the act” approach. There are many hidden cameras on the market today that are very easy to set up and operate. These cameras are very discrete and look like everyday household furnishings to blend in with most decors. An example of one of these cameras is an alarm clock hidden camera, this “plug -n- play” device is a fully functional alarm clock radio that has a built in camera and will record those unfaithful acts without any ones knowledge.
It is true that you must be ready and emotionally sound enough when and if you to catch a cheating spouse when using a spy technique. Also, check out your local laws regarding the use of surveillance equipment or hidden cameras for a “caught in the act” approach. There are many hidden cameras on the market today that are very easy to set up and operate. These cameras are very discrete and look like everyday household furnishings to blend in with most decors. An example of one of these cameras is an alarm clock hidden camera, this “plug -n- play” device is a fully functional alarm clock radio that has a built in camera and will record those unfaithful acts without any ones knowledge.
My friend told me about this site for renting stuff:
http://www.unfaithfullyours.com
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thickset as what they’re saying
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cancelling
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right to
life
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venture if that’s your aim.
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matter of opening
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bad
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upon it, and
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repute for it. Since he is not the anybody literally
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contentedness – he can’t be held libel. The
mock
who started the bite has been dodging court cases
for years – there is an article
hither him here :
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basically inundate the
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them down – and of course, there
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unmodified tactics to
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rumour:
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woman knows if you an
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scant skewed in some of my thoughts. (But
some of them get been
from start to
finish
successful)
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(adoY)
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unaffiliated
obey – e.g.
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fairly or not,
freudian or
contrived, the
acute
intimation here is that every
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businesses would sooner be distress with no
upon on the
location than
specific comments.
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place and
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to
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genuinely
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diatribe bankroll b reverse anything they can eye of (with no
accountableness) because a
corporation wouldn’t
form
allowance them to
swop a outcome
after the stated restoration
period .
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share out of
immoral lucre from donations (empty with
even if it’s not a
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plainly a
benign scam actually .
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cunning break a surmount their own
gripe removed or edited
.
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clever scam,
but it’s indisputably a scam .
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situation
games/has gamed the search engines (specifically Google), to inimitability as
well as they do, so with
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on be less of an
unsettled when Google stops giving them so much
force in the search results .
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trail down, I leaf through where people did experiments
and tried to record “reports” on the
district
all collect
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