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By Cathy Meyer, About.com Guide to Divorce Support

How To Get Back Into the Dating Scene

Friday November 14, 2008

When the dust settles and life gets back to normal, you will find yourself with thoughts of dating. You may miss the companionship of the opposite sex and we all know that developing a new relationship means dating.

If you jump back in with both feet you may find that dating isn’t like “riding a bike.” If it’s been a while since you have dated you are going to need to fine tune those old dating skills a bit. Dating after divorce is a daunting experience. So, I’ve put together some tips on how to help you get back into the dating game and enjoy your new found freedom.

  1. Leave the details of your divorce at home.

    Nothing is more unattractive than prattling on and on about the problems in your past relationship. The subject is bound to come up and when it does keep it brief and focus your attention on your date and having a good time in that moment. You can be open and honest with your date without spilling your guts.

  2. Be yourself.

    Relax and let the real you shine. Dating is about getting to know the other person. Finding out if that person has traits we like and whether or not we care for a second date. Keep in mind that your date is probably anxious also and wanting to make a good impression. Be yourself and encourage your date to do the same. Smiling and enjoying the moment is contagious and before you know it, you both will be...read more about dating after divorce

Comments

March 31, 2009 at 9:13 am
(1) Billy Bob Thorton says:

Just be yourself and remember no naughtiness until the third date. Not everyone wants to have sex with you! your not that hot.

March 31, 2009 at 9:14 am
(2) Billy Bob Thorton says:

Just be yourself and remember no naughtiness until the third date. g

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