Is there less sex than you feel is appropriate in your marriage? A sexless marriage is one in which a spouse feels there isnít enough sex or there is no sex at all.
Let me qualify what I have said above by saying that if you want sex every night and your spouse only wants sex three times a week, you are not living in a sexless marriage. If you want sex every night or three times a week and your spouse wants sex once a month, you are living in a sexless marriage.
Your spouse may disagree. Having sex once a month or once every three months may fulfill their need for sex. In their mind they are not living is a sexless marriage because their needs are being met.
The problem lies when there is a huge difference in the sexual needs of the spouses. The definition of a sexless marriage is not dependent upon whether or not there is sex in the marriage but on the effects of differing sex drives in the marriage.
For example, Jay could care less about sex. He had even told Janice, his wife that he didnít know ďwhat the big deal was about sex.Ē Jay was quite happy and content having sex...read more about sexless marriage