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By Cathy Meyer, About.com Guide to Divorce Support

Do You Have a Healthy Marital Relationship With Your Wife?

Monday June 15, 2009

We’ve all been around couples who have a relationship that seems flawless. You know the couples I’m talking about, the ones with an obvious healthy marital relationship. They never argue, are able to work through conflict as it arises with ease. There is a constant show of affection, love and support for each other.

I know a couple like this. They married and everything seemed to fall into place for them. They live a charmed life and it is all due to the healthy marital relationship they have with each other.

For some couples things don’t fall into place. It is a relationship with their spouse is more of a struggle, something that has to be worked at. A relationship that leaves them feeling empty, unloved or...read more

Comments
June 16, 2009 at 2:17 am
(1) Gwen says:

Cathy, This is off-topic on the blog entry, but I couldn’t find another way to contact you. I wanted to let you know that I was able to get Tricare (including *medical, commissary, BX/PX*) under the Former Spouse Protection Act since I qualify under the 20/20/20 rule. I am still battling the ex in court over the pension division. Hope you are doing good. Did you get your website up and running? If so, please send the URL to me.
Hugs,
Gwen

June 17, 2009 at 12:52 am
(2) rudy ochoa says:

cathy,when does dcss cross the line and how far is to much! iam a father who works 6day aweek just to provid ahome.food and aplace to call home. i iam having a hard time understanding this system i have full custody of my son dcss is leaving me with not enough money to pay my bills eventhough ibrought all my bills with me they told me its not there problem. when my ex had him with her dcss took money for his welbeing now that he is with me they do’t care about him? who do i contact about my sitution . I need a person who is not bias and willing to talk to me and help Iam sure there are many good fathers out there with the same problem who do we contact to take action against this unjustified system |Ineed help please e.mail rude44@hotmail.com msn

June 17, 2009 at 12:18 pm
(3) divorcesupport says:

Gwen, it is great to hear from you and great to hear all the good news. I know you are relieved to have most of this battle behind you. I’ll keep my fingers crossed that all works in your favor as far as the retirement issue.

You may email me at divorcesupport.guide@about.com. Please keep me updated.

June 17, 2009 at 12:24 pm
(4) divorcesupport says:

Rudy, I’m confused. Why is DCSS involved at all?

Did you fall behind on child support while he was living with you ex? Did your ex get aid for dependent children through DCSS?

If that is the case then DCSS is collecting money that is owed them for either services they paid for, for your child or the collection of back child support.

The fact that your son is now living with you does not negate any money you may still owe DCSS.

Am I right in assuming this is what has happened?

Also, now that he is living with you, is your ex paying you child support?

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