Parental Alienation Syndrome is the deliberate attempt by one parent to distance his/her children from the other parent. The motivation is to destroy the parental bond between his/her children with the other parent. The alienation process develops over time and some of the symptoms of the syndrome include some or all of the following:
- A parent will speak badly of or criticize the other parent directly to the child or children. Negative statements about the other parent may be direct or indirect. For instance, the parent may say, "We can't afford a new dress for the school dance because your father/mother decided to spend the money on vacation with their new friend." A more direct comment would be, "your father/mother left because he/she didn't care enough about you to try and make the marriage work." Either statement is meant to cause the child to feel anger toward the other parent. It is an attempt to use the child to get back at the other parent for causing emotional pain.
- A parent will speak badly of the other parent within the hearing range of the child or children. There are parents who say they would never say anything negative to their child or children about the other parent. They don't seem to have any problem saying negative things to other people though and if their child or children happen to be within hearing distance...post continued