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How Can I Prepare For A Child Custody Evaluation?

By Cathy Meyer, About.com

Question: How Can I Prepare For A Child Custody Evaluation?
Answer:

Below are suggestions on how to prepare for a child custody evaluation:

  • Cooperate with the evaluator. He or she is there to help your family and the judge figure out what will be in the best interest of the children.

  • Separate your marital problems from your parenting concerns. You may still have a lot of hurt and anger toward the other parent but marital issues may not be relevant to child custody issues.

  • Don’t look at the custody evaluation process as a win/lose situation. This is a good time to try and put the past behind you and focus on the future.

  • Parents can help their children by being open and honest with the evaluator.

  • The evaluator can be a resource of information. Ask about reading material, parent education classes, counseling and other help.

  • Keep your appointments and show up on time.

  • Organize school, health and other information that you think will be helpful.

  • Make notes of the questions you want to ask.

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