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What is a Prenuptial Agreement

Prenuptial Agreements: Not Only For the Wealthy

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What is a Prenuptial Agreement?

A prenuptial agreement is a legally bind contract created by two people before they marry. In the prenuptial agreement the couple addresses such issues as the property bought into the marriage by each person and what the property rights of each will be should they divorce.

Do you Need a Prenuptial Agreement?

I’m of the opinion that anyone who marries should have a prenuptial agreement and a strong understanding of the laws of their state pertaining to divorce. Couples just starting out can outline not only the financial responsibilities of each should there be a divorce, they can also put in writing the expectations of each as far as behavior during the marriage. And what will occur should their expectations not be met.

For example, if both parties agree that mom will stay home to raise the children once there are children the husband can’t one day leave and argue in court that he “tried” to get his wife to work and she refused.

Another example, no one marries expecting their spouse to cheat. You can outline the financial ramifications of cheating that leads to divorce in a prenuptial agreement. Take a lesson from Sandra Bullock who had a prenuptial agreement stating that if Jessie James cheated he would no longer be entitled to any of her assets.

You may not have the assets that Sandra Bullock has but, I promise you that what assets you do have are important and if you land in divorce court, a prenup will protect those assets.

Other Benefits of a Prenuptial Agreement:

Below is a list of what can be covered in a prenuptial agreement. It may help you make up your mind about whether or not to protect yourself with such a contract.

  • Keep assets separate: State divorce laws regulate what is and isn’t a marital asset. The problem is, you have to prove in court which was and wasn’t your asset. A prenuptial agreement will keep you from having to fight in court to prove what is and isn’t your asset.
  • Dividing Debt: Prenuptial agreements can limit your responsibility as far as your spouse’s debt at the time of divorce and during the marriage.
  • Inherited Property: If you have inherited property you and your spouse can agree, in a prenuptial agreement to the property remaining with you should there be a divorce.
  • Divorce Settlement Negotiations: Most importantly, a prenuptial agreement will define who gets what should there be a divorce. Without a prenuptial agreement your state’s divorce laws and the settlement you negotiate will determine how marital assets are split. Isn’t it best to set your own rules than depend on those adopted by the state?

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