He also agreed to pay a large sum of child support without consulting me. I'm very angry because he is making decisions without my input and has put me in a position of being the one to decide if we divorce or not. He made these mistakes, why can't he be the one to make that awful decision? What should I do?
What you do has to be your decision and it will be an easy one to make once you get enough of his bad behavior. You will one day make a decision based on what is best for you and your daughter. Right now it seems like an awful decision but the longer he disrespects you and the marriage the less awful the decision will...post continued